s01e02 — Part 2
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| Released: | 26.03.202026.03.2020 15:00 |
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the baby deserves happiness (I didn't care when I found out that she was only nineteen)
I meant that her small stature, baby face and moments of ignorance of her own body looked to me like a director's move showing a very young age.
...Thank you for partially "enlightening" me before the wedding...
Although their wedding is even more fucked up. I understand that this is a foreign culture, but.... I do not know how in the modern world people can voluntarily profess such a thing.
I don't understand how either...
that, of course, does not negate all ethical problems
, but one wedding is worth it
After all, most "adults" have the idea in their head that they always know what is best for their child. In any community, there is nothing to idealize. It just manifests itself in different ways. And when thinking more flexible acceptance comes... faster.
It often takes time and, of course, the desire to understand the other person, which, of course, is not there. For now or at all, it's hard to say.
Plus, being offended and angry (and this is what grandma feels first of all when she realizes that the granddaughter, in whom she invested so much love and care, whose life she tried her best to arrange, spat on it and went to her mother - who is also a traitor- disgraced in front of other members of the community, showed disrespect, and I also dared to call), people rarely think correctly. In fact, Grandma knew that Esty was being searched for, and the main thing was to find her, but her own emotions and feelings prevailed. And this is more likely to be true than a situation where a person lived for 60 years believing in clear principles, and then suddenly immediately took and understood and forgave an unreasonable child who spat on all these principles.
Well, rules, rules, rules...
On the other hand, it may be that she wants to protect herself so that later the Wolves will not be unleashed on her, which she knew and did not tell.
Or yet, as we remember from the last episode, she was not informed that her granddaughter was missing, and she is just in shock, does not understand what is happening.
it was unexpected)
About submission is not entirely true, it is not a broad gesture, but a complex concept of hair in Judaism as a whole. That's how men can't cut their hair at the temples. For a woman, this is a manifestation of modesty.
In fact, the book describes all the traditions in a very accessible way.
Tin, of course. And I can't stop watching it!
I also think it's great that Esty found at least some semblance of company on the first day.
You can't exactly call her weak-willed and weak, she is quite enterprising
She yelled at Yankee and Moishe. Phone, where is Esty?? :D
It would be interesting to find a book and read it, if it is translated into Russian
For years, suppressed sexuality, lack of sexual education (even in the company of peers, as often happens in Russia) make themselves felt.
The boys in the yeshiva, according to the heroine's future husband (in his autobiography), masturbate each other — so they have at least some idea about their anatomy. And here we should not forget that it is more difficult for boys during puberty not to notice this, if we talk specifically about anatomy and biology. But girls also find themselves studying each other in a sexual sense (there are hints about this in the book in the story about the camp), but this bypasses the heroine — she is too much in books and reflection. So I readily believe that everything was like that.
Plus, later in the book we are talking about the psychological problems of the heroine during sex, which are perfectly explained by such a "developmental delay".
I was lucky enough to rent a hostel in London in an area where only Orthodox Jews lived, then I saw enough of these fur "hats" like a "tire" and the same dresses for women.(
All this leaves such a depressing impression for me. Although I wonder what will happen next.
If you're interested, of course)
Unfortunately, this is common.
Thanks for your reply
иначе бы эти общины давно распались.
тут нет смысла судить по себе: это же совершенно другое восприятие, когда ты растёшь в этой общине и все вокруг тоже живут по этим традициям. уверена, что можно искренне верить в это всё и радоваться, что живёшь по заветам.
ну, и подозреваю, что западная культура, жизнь и обычаи, их могут точно так же искренне пугать и отвращать, как нас пугают ортодоксы.)
Такое ощущение от сериала, словно касторки выпила. Плюс неуместные слова "тебе никогда не быть такой как мы и не догнать нас". Это может быть как правдой, так и не правдой, учитывая, что Эсти нигде не училась толком, и играла для себя, и ради своего мужа ей пришлось бросить то, к чему лежит душа.
А еще удивительное неуважение к чужим традициям и нормам поведения: шантаж и угрозы другому человеку, чтобы добыть нужную информацию (ну им же очень надо, ведь их потребности и правила важнее ваших) или по-мелочи — плевать косточки на тротуар.
Послать её надо куда подальше было