I was deeply touched by the podcast with Saule. Vanya was pushing too hard with his psychoanalysis. If talking to a parent in his family turned out to be the best therapy, it's not a fact that everything in Saule's family will go according to the same scenario. Therefore, saying "go and talk to your mother" was not tactful.
Vanya, for the best of reasons, advises to talk, all families are different, I agree, but I do not know which family was harmed by a heart-to-heart conversation
@Asqa_Enot: Agree. In general, it's not worth advising someone if you can't fix the consequences later. I understand that he was filled up and wanted to help others, but there are really different situations, at least because of national traditions. Plus, if the psychoanalyst is not pushing her in that direction, then there is a reason, he knows her inner workings better. A person should be ready for such conversations. I'm 30, too, and I've been tinkering with a psychologist on this topic, and it's only been the last two years that I've been talking to them a little bit. It's very difficult.
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3Vanya was pushing too hard with his psychoanalysis. If talking to a parent in his family turned out to be the best therapy, it's not a fact that everything in Saule's family will go according to the same scenario. Therefore, saying "go and talk to your mother" was not tactful.
Plus, if the psychoanalyst is not pushing her in that direction, then there is a reason, he knows her inner workings better. A person should be ready for such conversations.
I'm 30, too, and I've been tinkering with a psychologist on this topic, and it's only been the last two years that I've been talking to them a little bit. It's very difficult.