Kind people, explain to me pliz in more detail, if possible using the maximum of terms from psychology (I'll Google later), what is it with Meredith? Did she like drowning and that's why she's afraid to start a relationship? It's kind of weird, to put it mildly...
@solic: imho, she is an ordinary infantile person who finds it easier to fold her hands than to take responsibility for her life or it is easier to get rid of a relationship than to solve something in them. such people always have something or someone to blame for everything (a strict mother, a failed girlfriend's wedding). What's that got to do with you?! If you want an extraordinary life and a relationship with Derek, then take it and do something for it. @Virginia: The ambush is that she is not an adult. Adults behave differently
@SUZI_Q: well, by the way, Shonda has a lot of heroes who solve problems that way - they run away from them. Perhaps this template is sitting in her head and seems interesting to develop in the series. I've been on my way to being nice to Meredith for a very long time. At first she infuriated me, then I more or less began to understand her difficult situation with her mother, the desire for independence, independence, as a result, now I perceive Meredith as an adult, accomplished person, and I like that I saw her growth.
@solic: At the beginning of this series, Kristina gave her a psychological diagnosis from the book "abandonment syndrome". True, I think that the experience of being close to death is something separate, additional, but it caused complications precisely on the basis of the first one. In general, the whole series is just about this and everything is talked about - you can know your fears, but this does not mean that you will be able to defeat them. And next to death, fears recede and there comes peace and determination, and you want to experience this state again. Although IMHO to know about fears and not try to overcome them is stupid.
But on the third hand, I understand that a happy ending for Meredith is not good for the series, what will they play on? Or you'll have to invent new problems a little later, already married. In short, the laziness of the screenwriters is unlikely to allow us to see a happy ending. Although theoretically it's possible, since she's trying to figure out what's wrong with her.
@solic: I think she didn't like drowning, she liked the feeling when she was drowning that she didn't have to think about anything else. And after resuscitation - that she is absolutely clean and new, that she can do anything. And then all sorts of problems piled up again, thoughts, all this, because you can't even sleep without anxiety and thoughts
I understand her in this regard. But looking from the outside is infuriating and it seems that this is a kindergarten Therefore, I will also agree with the comment about infantilism
@solic: It also said that she was afraid that Derek would leave like her father. And so yes, she was abandoned as a child and is afraid of attachments, suddenly, like her parents, he will leave her sometime.
In general, you can watch it for the sake of a sitcom. For the dramatic element has exhausted itself. And so - full of funny moments. And with Izzy, who was annoying with her hysteria, I already laughed at the end, especially with tears about one shaved leg. We are all a little Izzy on critical days =))
I have vague doubts that, sober, Izzy and George will never be able to sleep together. And if they do, then that's where they'll realize how ridiculous this whole love story of theirs is.
and what is it about the last scene that both Greys have such reactions? well, neighbors and neighbors. Alex has not yet managed to inherit that there was a struggle or jealousy for him
@juliakey: mb the reason is that they don't really want to cross paths with each other, so seeing each other in the same house without warnings is somehow not comme il faut
- George, I'm sorry, I didn't have the strength
A very cute and funny moment
@Virginia: The ambush is that she is not an adult. Adults behave differently
True, I think that the experience of being close to death is something separate, additional, but it caused complications precisely on the basis of the first one. In general, the whole series is just about this and everything is talked about - you can know your fears, but this does not mean that you will be able to defeat them. And next to death, fears recede and there comes peace and determination, and you want to experience this state again. Although IMHO to know about fears and not try to overcome them is stupid.
But on the third hand, I understand that a happy ending for Meredith is not good for the series, what will they play on? Or you'll have to invent new problems a little later, already married. In short, the laziness of the screenwriters is unlikely to allow us to see a happy ending. Although theoretically it's possible, since she's trying to figure out what's wrong with her.
And then all sorts of problems piled up again, thoughts, all this, because you can't even sleep without anxiety and thoughts
I understand her in this regard.
But looking from the outside is infuriating and it seems that this is a kindergarten
Therefore, I will also agree with the comment about infantilism
well, neighbors and neighbors. Alex has not yet managed to inherit that there was a struggle or jealousy for him
so seeing each other in the same house without warnings
is somehow
not comme il faut
- No
- Just checking
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