блин, ору. "я тебя не люблю" "я тебя люблю" "ты мне не нужен" "ты мне нужен" -- и так далее тому подобное. я конечно, понимаю, что этот сериал построен на любви, но жду момента, когда кто-нибудь скажет типа "хм, а кто эта Сплетница, которая всё знает?". Как же я его жду.
Everyone writes about Serena, Lily, Rufus... yes, the Rufus+Lily line is strong, but it was in this series that there was an equally interesting manifestation of Nate's character. Someone will say that he is part of the elite and he will not be impoverished by his decision, but given the situation in his family, this is an additional blow to his parents, and a blow to the already tarnished reputation of the family. Still, Nate decides to do it for someone else, not for himself. It's hard to say if he would have set himself up if he hadn't been thinking about Blair, but he certainly wasn't doing it to impress her, but to make sure she didn't have any problems. And this is really the act of a man, not a boy. Nate has too much frivolous lovemaking so far, but he's not without some truly noble qualities. Blair was telling the truth when she called him a gentleman in episode 10.
About Serena... I don't think her conversation with her mother was selfish. He was frank and sincere. Here are my arguments: 1) At the time of the conversation, Serena is already dating Dan, while Lily is just going to return the love of the past. Serena has a respectful priority in asking not to build a new pair on the bones of another. 2) If Serena and Dan are together, there is nothing terrible for Rufus and Lily. This does not prevent them from communicating or not communicating in any way. But the convergence of Rufus and Lily will really make it awkward for Serena and Dan to communicate - they will become half-brother and sister. It would even be a little immoral for Lily to refuse her daughter, given that she is an adult woman and has life experience, the ability to look at things more maturely. In general, for me personally, there was no selfishness in Seren's request. This is a moment about something else. On the one hand, he once again shows that Lily, despite her mistakes, is a truly loving mother. The mistakes that she makes in relation to children are the result of a strong mother's love. She takes very close to her heart both the possibility of Eric's repeated suicide attempt, and Serena's rampant past. And like a real mother, she sacrifices herself for the children. On the other hand, about the sacrifice of parents. The moment is also about the fact that sometimes it is too late to correct the mistake of the past, because life does not stand still, and children are not toys, but a great responsibility. However, this does not negate the fact that it was sad to see how Lily came "light". This is the contradiction of the situation: no matter what choice you make , someone will be hurt. But Lily decided to keep the pain to herself, and not to shift it to her daughter's shoulders. And Rufus understandingly accepted her decision and also accepted his pain.
@charlie___pace: Если нет кровных уз, какая разница сводные или не сводные? В конце концов, Лили и Руфус могли бы просто встречаться и не оформлять отношения, тогда бы не было никаких сводных братьев и сестер.
@SvetlanaNikitina: согласна с Вами, не понимаю, чем отношения их родителей или даже брак помешают Серене и дэну. Лили тоже имеет право быть счастливой:)
Да это никакой не последний шанс... Лили привлекательная женщина, и, судя по всему, пользуется популярностью у мужчин. Но дело в том, что Руфус - ее настоящая любовь. Одно дело - любить человека «в моменте», другое - иметь такие же сильные чувства к нему по прошествии многих лет. Вот это самое обидное! Особенно когда чувства взаимны.
Как же мне не нравится фраза "такая девушка, как Серена". Какая? Которая переспала с парнем своей подруги, пила, употребляла наркотики? Конечно, она красивая, умная, весёлая, да, она совершила много ошибок. Но при этом так унижают Дэна, будто он кусок грязи, а она королева, которая снизошла до него, а на деле выходит наоборот.
Думаю, что школа зовёт обойтись без полиции в таких делах. Кому нужен лишний скандал, когда тебе десятки тысяч платят богатеи. Это удал по репутации, проще разобраться внутри.
Ну что это за ерунда? Кому какое дело, кто Серена и Дэн будут друг другу, если Руфус и Лили поженятся. Это фейспалм просто. Мама, я не хочу, чтобы ты была счастлива, главное, чтобы я выглядела норм. Никому эти глупые жертвы не нужны. Хотя она изначально променяла Руфуса на деньги и статус, так что тут ещё спорно.
"You have to admit it," Dan says to Serena, fearing for himself and knowing that she will be expelled, and even gets upset later that she wasn't expelled ("but they wouldn't do that to me"). Yeah, the guy is super, of course.
Скаждой серией всё больше сочувствую Лили
"я тебя не люблю"
"я тебя люблю"
"ты мне не нужен"
"ты мне нужен" -- и так далее тому подобное. я конечно, понимаю, что этот сериал построен на любви, но жду момента, когда кто-нибудь скажет типа "хм, а кто эта Сплетница, которая всё знает?". Как же я его жду.
1) At the time of the conversation, Serena is already dating Dan, while Lily is just going to return the love of the past. Serena has a respectful priority in asking not to build a new pair on the bones of another.
2) If Serena and Dan are together, there is nothing terrible for Rufus and Lily. This does not prevent them from communicating or not communicating in any way. But the convergence of Rufus and Lily will really make it awkward for Serena and Dan to communicate - they will become half-brother and sister. It would even be a little immoral for Lily to refuse her daughter, given that she is an adult woman and has life experience, the ability to look at things more maturely.
In general, for me personally, there was no selfishness in Seren's request. This is a moment about something else. On the one hand, he once again shows that Lily, despite her mistakes, is a truly loving mother. The mistakes that she makes in relation to children are the result of a strong mother's love. She takes very close to her heart both the possibility of Eric's repeated suicide attempt, and Serena's rampant past. And like a real mother, she sacrifices herself for the children. On the other hand, about the sacrifice of parents. The moment is also about the fact that sometimes it is too late to correct the mistake of the past, because life does not stand still, and children are not toys, but a great responsibility.
However, this does not negate the fact that it was sad to see how Lily came "light". This is the contradiction of the situation: no matter what choice you make , someone will be hurt. But Lily decided to keep the pain to herself, and not to shift it to her daughter's shoulders. And Rufus understandingly accepted her decision and also accepted his pain.
:))