s05e08 — The Party's Over

Name: The Party's Over
Released: 2004-11-09
Rating: 4.63
Cast: Lauren Graham, Alexis Bledel, Scott Patterson, Melissa McCarthy, Kelly Bishop

Gilmore Girls — s05e08 — The Party's Over

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Duration:	43 min.
Released:	09.11.2004^{10.11.2004 04:00}
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Sihaya

03 May 2015, 20:04 #

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Drozdova_Su

28 May 2015, 00:03 #

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HurricaneSky

30 Jul 2015, 14:03 #

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SpringSpark

13 Dec 2015, 21:41 #

Come on, they still remember what Dean's ideal girl is: who would cook him dinner every night, like the heroine of a black-and-white show. And Rory is twenty years old, and if her grandparents allow her to eat at Yale and have fun, it's unclear why she should give it up for the sake of a guy who is doing some kind of game with his life. Yes, it's selfish, but I believe that a smart girl like her can afford to experience such a carefree life while there is a chance.

Nanneke

PRO

13 Jun 2022, 00:17 #

@SpringSpark: Well, he had a wife who was waiting for him at home and cooked dinner for him. Maybe not always successfully, but still cooked) And even that didn't suit him.

WinTanya

11 Jan 2016, 04:35 #

But I don't understand the Dean-Rory couple at all - they have completely different views on life, different desires, goals, interests. That's even the most basic thing - what are they talking about, that's what? When Rory has a bunch of abstruse books in his head, articles, questions, etc., and Dean works as a salesman and contractor, having dropped out of college, and is completely happy with this arrangement, it seems to me. No, he's not stupid, and there's nothing wrong with his work, but they're clearly "from different backgrounds" - they just have to be bored with each other. And yes, while they were 16 - still at school, still so young and undecided - everything was even more or less, but now that the difference is more visible than ever, and the relationship does not hold on to some "butterflies in the stomach", it was strange to expect another outcome than parting.

HurricaneSky

19 Jan 2016, 05:37 #

@WinTanya: No one disputes that Dean and Rory would have failed. It's all about HOW Rory showed it to him. She just forgot about him. She shouldn't have touched Dean when she became bored and envious of someone else's seething personal life. Until she appeared in his life again, everything was fine with him, and it would be fine further, with a girl who agreed to cook him dinners.

WinTanya

28 Jan 2016, 03:03 #

@HurricaneSky: Oh, it didn't seem to me that everything was fine for him at that moment without Rory - her return was just an even greater amplifier of dissatisfaction with the current situation in his life - the reason why you can cut everything off, quit.
In general, it seemed to me that they completely broke Rory's character with this situation with Dean (and continued to break it all season) - I don't believe that such a person, who was drawn in the first seasons, could change so dramatically, step over his character, principles, etc.
*a comment with an opinion that no one asked - sorry, there's just no one to discuss the series with, but sometimes you want to*

miriadit

18 Aug 2017, 22:35 #

@WinTanya: And I don't see that Rory has been "broken" yet. With regard to her personal life, she was initially not as smart as in the rest, and her attitude towards Dean was peculiar. Remember her reaction to his I love you, how she easily traded Dean for Jess...

Nanneke

PRO

13 Jun 2022, 00:23 #

@HurricaneSky: Well, Rory didn't just go back to him. She still came home. Sometimes they met by chance, sometimes intentionally. But Dean's not a goody-goody either. He himself longed for these meetings. I was reaching out to her myself.

Purple_unicorn

10 Jan 2018, 00:27 #

@WinTanya: I'll add to the conversation) I liked the Dean-Rory couple only for the first time. When they started dating again now, it was somehow completely different. As if it was clear to everyone that Rory loved Jess, but because he treated her badly, she suddenly remembered Dean, who, as she herself said, always called when he promised, and was generally a good guy. So she apparently returned to him from frustration, especially since he seems to always be in love with her. And despite the fact that I was waiting for them to be divorced, I found the parting scene absolutely stupid. Well, she was at a boring party, she hung out with these guys a little bit, and it wasn't the coolest thing, but Dean reacted so straight. He, the one who slept with her several times while he was still married. And she was 15 minutes late, not an hour. And what's the problem with ringing or knocking on the door, since it's not coming. If he reacted like that to the guys, well, damn, they didn't have an orgy there, or now she can't communicate with guys at all? In general, I'm not defending Rory, because she did a lot of things herself, but this little emancipation suited her: at this party and at that secret fraternity party. I hope she doesn't go all out, but she studies and works so hard that I'm glad she had some fun. She missed it.

alpina108

26 Dec 2018, 21:18 #

@KormashovaE: No, well, he just saw her in an evening dress, hairstyle, diamonds in a circle, next to a crowd of boys in tuxedos - he suddenly realized the class difference, as it seemed to me. that he was not her match, and would never be her equal.

fits_a

12 Feb 2016, 05:27 #

I've never thought badly of the Gilmores senior, but what they've done in this series is just humiliating. One girl and a lot of guys... Well, how can such a thought seem reasonable? I'm disgusted. I'm very sorry for Lorelei. She was upset by the situation at the very end of the episode when she saw Rory.
Dean is not at all sorry, in general, all these "love lines" with Rory are kind of boring. Dean should have been merged a long time ago, as a character he is no longer interesting, and, let's just say, he reached his peak in this series. The other guys don't pick up at all. I want more.
And TJ was terribly annoying the whole series, so I wanted Luke to just take him and throw him out on the street. Damn.
Luke and Lorelei are gorgeous together.

mir4ik

13 Feb 2016, 06:20 #

Finally, bye Dean! It's a pity for him, of course, but he's already tired of it.

Yorinko

14 Feb 2016, 22:41 #

Dean finally realized that they were from different berry beds..

Tryam

05 Aug 2016, 02:37 #

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anneforbs

30 Aug 2016, 20:27 #

The series hit the patient right, well, it's not good when people, two generations older than you, try to get into your life and sort everything out there the way they want. It is clear that Richard and Emily grew up in a completely different world, but would they really like such an appeal to themselves? :with Upset.

Flynn06

17 Apr 2017, 12:57 #

Gilmores are either animals with medieval morals, or just beaten off their heads. At first, they arranged a viewing, which was more like an auction for the sale of an elite-class courtesan. And at the end of the evening, Rory was completely released with a crowd of play hormones. What did they, the Gilmores, hope for? I don't even want to talk about it. Terrible, disgusting people who think only of themselves.

miriadit

18 Aug 2017, 22:39 #

Meanwhile, I can't help but like Logan, because I really liked Cary in The Good Wife) Well, it's time for someone else to appear in Rory's life, the relationship with Dean and Jess is absolutely dead-end.

nyan-cat

14 Jun 2018, 20:00 #

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Тюнечка

13 Jun 2019, 19:56 #

This is the best episode, because Dean is finished!
they had no future. she's too good for him...and spoiled sandwiches in the back

besenkis

04 Jun 2020, 20:02 #

@Tyunechka: Exactly.. These sandwiches were a highlight, such a contrast

nesterovaa_a

02 Dec 2019, 05:32 #

everything is great, Dean realized that he was not a match for Rory, but Rory damn destroyed his family. Yes, yes, he succumbed to feelings, etc. but Dean would have lived with the same simple Lindsey and would have been simply happy. Rory didn't think–Dean has suffered three times already. It's really a pity. I hope the guy in this line is everything, but he will continue to live happily in his own cozy little world.

besenkis

04 Jun 2020, 20:03 #

@nesterovaa_a: I don't think Dean could have been happy with Lindsay because he didn't have a problem with Rory at that moment. now he will get over it and will probably be able to be happy with Lindsay or another similar girl who will be waiting for him at home in the evening and cook his favorite dishes

_____mermaid___

20 Aug 2020, 01:54 #

What do you mean, you ruined your family? Dean is an adult and he should be responsible for his own actions. It was Dean who cheated on his wife. Rory may have done something ugly too, but she doesn't owe Lindsay anything, she didn't lie to her and cheat on her.

SlowoJackal

07 May 2020, 20:27 #

After all, I like Logan more and more with each episode. And finally Dean was removed.

Tigershot

08 May 2020, 17:21 #

I don't understand why Lorilei is so surprised, she herself was wild in her youth, even at school.

marrrmoreal

31 Jul 2020, 05:15 #

I don't understand why everyone supports Dean. He makes scenes over every little thing. I am silent about the fact that he cheated on his wife. Yes, he loves Rory, but he should have thought about everything before the wedding, and not made impulsive decisions at the age of 19. Logan looks caring, sweet and funny so far.

_____mermaid___

20 Aug 2020, 01:56 #

I completely agree. Any guy should just talk to Rory and Dean is ready to make a scene.

tanya_saturn

18 Sep 2020, 01:00 #

I don't understand why anyone should feel sorry for Dean in this situation. He dumped Rory in public again, like he did at the marathon. And if there was at least a normal reason then, then this time the boy was just offended by the status of Rory's family, as soon as he saw the diamonds and her friends from Yale. It's not Rory's fault at all. Dean waited only 15 minutes and could have called or asked the maid to call Rory.

Lava_recommends

PRO

12 Feb 2021, 20:32 #

Yes, he is always the king of drama

Roxy_Bluff

10 May 2021, 22:43 #

@tanya_saturn: I support it! all 3 times that they broke up, it was Dean who dumped her, and two of them in public. It's just a hand-face. I only liked his character at the very beginning, when he first appeared, and he courted her so sweetly, made her a bracelet, went to the Chilton ball with her and all that. But then after his tantrum, when she did not respond to his declaration of love, some fierce trash with him began. After that, I somehow stopped liking him. Then Jess appeared, whom I had high hopes for, because he is the complete opposite of Dean, but the character who showed such potential was merged into some kind of unstable jerk. Now Rory is at Yale, and it seems to me that it's time to let go of all these past relationships of hers in order to make room for something new. But maybe Rory is just afraid, because then you have to take a step into the unknown. Dean is simple and straightforward, she has known him for a hundred years, but these new guys from Yale, they are completely different. Maybe this is what intrigues and scares her at the same time.

K2isOn

27 Oct 2020, 05:27 #

I don't even want to discuss Rory and all her plots - so far everything is very sad, boring, and generally very frustrating. I wanted her to return to Dean earlier - but I agree with the comments above - they no longer work, they have become too different, and it was time to end it long ago
I am wary of Logan, although I really like him at times, such as when he calmed her down near the car, or the fact that he read her article
Since the beginning of season 5, I think that only Luke and Lorelai are pulling the series - that's what it's a pleasure to watch, they're just perfect together, like two puzzles come together💔 Well, it's also interesting to watch Lyne and Zach) And Rory, compared to the first three seasons, is actually not the same

Ellen_Black

29 Oct 2020, 17:51 #

Periodically, I start to think that Lorelai is too strict with her parents, and then the Gilmores senior do similar shit and remind me that no, she's right. At first, this situation with Luke (although in the first seasons Emily constantly said what fools they were, that they did not see the obvious). Now these looks are for Rory. The situation itself is disgusting, and Lorelai correctly told them that Rory treats them well and believes them, and they brazenly take advantage of it.

I don't know how to treat Zach and Lane yet. They seem nice, but boring. I liked Dave so much, he did so much to be with Lane, and he was quietly leaked off-screen.

I'm still looking at Logan. Not my type at all, but let's see. I really thought that Rory and Marty would be brought together, I think he would be more suitable for her. Rory is still simpler than all these crown princes.

id137715504

28 Mar 2021, 08:56 #

I'm so glad the writers brought in Logan. Not only is it a fresh breath of air after the nasty Dean. So we also have the opportunity to see what would have happened if a Rory-Tristan couple had formed. Of course, it's not 100%, but still. My heart is really happy. And it's so cute when Logan calls Rory an Ace.

id137715504

28 Mar 2021, 09:01 #

And I don't feel a bit sorry for Dean. Damn, their repeated "relationship" began with cheating on his wife and accusing Rory of divorcing his wife. Yes, Rory has made a mistake 1 time now, but, first of all, it doesn't happen to anyone. She doesn't have fun that often, she has the right to relax. Secondly, yes, she forgot, but is it worth throwing a tantrum in front of people? It would be possible to put them in a car and ask at least what was there, and not build your own guesses and draw conclusions based on them. And at the same time, again, his image of a sufferer, and Rory felt guilty for not just a great offense to you

gastings

17 Oct 2021, 15:33 #

I love watching Lane

AnastasiiaR

06 Feb 2022, 16:12 #

Oh my God, Logan Inda House! Finally!
Thank God, Dean will sink into summer!

AnastasiiaR

06 Feb 2022, 16:16 #

As if Dean hadn't seen before that he wasn't a match for her!Well, it wasn't so noticeable at school, although Rory was still not like everyone else!
He is so strange and I agree with everyone above that Dean, as usual, is already a sufferer! As much as possible, sacrifice, eat!

AnastasiiaR

06 Feb 2022, 16:18 #

А как Логан эффектно появился! Ну вот видно же что парень с харизмой и весь такой из себя! Надо брать быка за рога!

Croheart

22 Jun 2022, 15:59 #

Логан мне не нравится, но и Дин какой-то драма кинг. Обязательно было при всех устраивать сцену? Опять, между прочим 🙄
Рори, вылезающая из тачки с толпой парней и поправляющая платье, реально странно смотрелась. Я бы не хотела свою дочь в таком виде поймать…

schmidthappens

01 Sep 2022, 00:57 #

Логан нравится с каждой серией все больше, но Джесса все-таки не хватает(

ScarlettLine

14 Oct 2022, 14:04 #

Как же бесят старшие Гилморы. Иногда думаю, почему Лорелай так параноит насчёт них, а потом они откалывают что-то наподобие этой вечеринки, или то, как они обошлись с Люком в прошлой серии, и понимаю - вот почему.
Да, пара Рори - Дин уже не работает. Они как будто тянут резину в этих отношениях по инерции и прежней милоты между ними уже не было, но! Я не считаю, что Рори такая о**енная, и Дин её недостоин, потому что бросил колледж и работает. Я верю, что он всего добьётся в жизни рано или поздно. Напомню, Лорелай в этом возрасте работала горничной и в Йелях не училась, и все у неё получилось, получится и у Дина. Отношения пора было заканчивать, потому что они оба выросли из них выросли, и им надо двигаться дальше.
Но то, как Эмили и Ричард вмешиваются в жизни девочек, манипулируют ими и их личной жизнью, ищут им в пары людей из своего круга, пытаются «облагородить» Люка, фу! Как будто разводят породистых лошадей. Отвратительно, а ещё больше бесит то, что у них получилось, хоть и невольно, расстроить отношения Рори и Дина (хотя Дин повёл себя как маленький неуверенный в себе мальчик опять).
Самое главное, что они уверены в своей правоте; что благие намерения оправдывают их мерзкие манипуляции. Буду теперь до конца сериала параноить вместе с Лорелай)

nicolemeadow

19 Oct 2022, 20:03 #

Дин придурок. опять порвать с Рори при посторонних людях. что за лузер? катись к черту.
Логан так подошёл к Рори и успокоил, а как он ловко спас её от парня того - обожаю. смотрю сериал ради его появлений сейчас, что за милаш. интресный очень

kaktus_katya

26 Nov 2022, 20:12 #

Бабушка с дедушкой е*нутые какие то, чесслово

goldermaid

13 Dec 2022, 02:06 #

I don't argue with the fact that Emily and Richard did incredibly bad and unfair things to Rory, but I'm glad it ended well. good, because Logan showed up (which was highly anticipated) and saved both Rory and her evening. I hung out with charismatic smart guys from Yale — one, and there are so many of them, and everyone entertains her.
finally, Dean realized that they were completely different: it had long been clear that Rory was a higher-flying bird than he was. I was amused by how all the guys were ridiculously sad when she said that she had a boyfriend, but even more amused that Logan became interested in Who such a beautiful Rory chose for the guy and everyone went with her. it's a good thing we left, because if she had come out alone, then maybe this story with Dean would have lasted even longer. and everything really turns out as Emily and Richard said — This is a new stage in Rory's life and we were clearly shown its beginning.

AnnaKrupach

24 Dec 2022, 00:03 #

Oooh, someone is watching the show with me in about the same time interval

yanok2001

05 Jun 2023, 01:45 #

которую серию умиляюсь с Люка и Лорелай, вот пусть у них следующие 2 сезона просто всё будет хорошо, без ссор и расставаний 🙏🏻 рада, что Лорелея сама понимает, что Люк идеальный мужчина хахаха
и их мэтч идеальный: радуюсь каждому их шуточному диалогу, и угрюмость Люка немного снижается рядом с гиперактивной Лорелай)

думала, до конца сериала останусь тим Джесс, так как Логан по каким-то скринам и фото, которые я видела раньше, не очень нравился внешне, но у него такая харизма!! а как он улыбается, когда смотрит на Рори (особенно в сцене, когда Дин уехал) 💔

про Гилморов уже все написали, и я тоже добавлю, какая же отвратительная ситуация и как плохо Рори, должно быть, себя чувствовала, просто как товар какой-то, пока Логан не спас положение

oldestdream

08 Nov 2023, 00:12 #

гилморы манипуляторы отвратные, тут ничего нового, но зато дин ушёл (да, я хейтер)

Mishka3

14 Jan 15:58 #

забавно, что на самом деле эта вечеринка была очень важна для развития отношений логана и рори, расставание с дином (я кстати тут вообще никакой истерики не заметила, дин на удивление был очень спокоен и тих), так что дедушка с бабушкой оказались правы, рори вполне подойдёт один конкретный парень из йеля 😂

НадеждаТ

14 Jan 16:51 #

@Mishka3: Кто бы что не говорил, но семья, положение, образование важны для отношений. Гормоны гормонами, но страсть проходит. Не верю в удачные союзы разных социальных слоёв. Сказки про Золушек остались в далёком прошлом. А тут грубо говоря Рори из семьи не то, что белых, а даже золотых воротничков, а Дин из синих.
Хотя Дин мне визуально больше всех ухажеров Рори нравился как будущий Винчестер, ещё совсем молоденький.

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