s01e06 — Episode 6

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Duration:	33 min.
Released:	26.04.2020^{26.04.2020 14:00}
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tequillaboom

10 May 2020, 01:56 #

How wounded they are... and beautiful...

Have you thought about where this line is, how to understand when you are doing something that you like, or doing something that pleases someone you like to make happy?

tevladka

11 May 2020, 00:20 #

What's wrong with the heroine's brother? It feels like she put a bunch under his nose 🤦🏻♀️ his reaction is generally inadequate to her

It's like something happened in the past. Otherwise, if it's because of envy and a complex, then it looks strange at all

k1ryusha

19 May 2020, 01:06 #

It's like something from the past is dragging... Because he treated her strangely when Marianne was at school. Maybe it has something to do with my father? It seems that the father beat Marianna's mother, according to the latter.

Maxyjazz

27 May 2020, 09:29 #

And here it's a mystery to me, what's on the TV series, what's on the book... The family is generally mentioned in passing

tevladka

27 May 2020, 13:37 #

Yes, I already read the book after the series. The film adaptation is quite accurate and yes, the author himself does not really give a question to this answer. But most likely he's just an asshole with an inferiority complex who watched his dad beat his wife and daughter (or maybe him too)

Shi3andra

31 May 2020, 00:38 #

@tevladka: Marianna says in the series that her father did not beat her. Maybe he beat his brother, and this is another reason to hate his sister for making her life easier?

tevladka

31 May 2020, 02:40 #

but apparently the brother himself beat his sister, as I understood it.
Maybe he was following his father

full_fusion

05 Jun 2020, 00:43 #

@Maximgrechany: that is, there are no details and reasons for such disgusting behavior of my brother in the book either? Well that's absurd then :/

tevladka

05 Jun 2020, 04:06 #

the film adaptation is quite accurate according to the book. Yes, there it is also in the background. I don't think this is absurd, rather a literary device and the vision of the author of the story)

Анна999

03 Jul 2020, 17:36 #

@tevladka: and her mother doesn't spoil her with much love either

MariaDisney

21 May 2022, 11:27 #

In the book, the brother is an even bigger asshole. The scene in the kitchen there demonstrates this even more strongly. He spat at Marianne out of envy for her success, she didn't even say a bad word to him. It seems to me that my father's disgusting behavior is either an example of how not to behave, or as an example to follow. My brother chose the second option

nezabudka

15 May 2020, 03:55 #

What did he say to her..?!

xavini

PRO

21 May 2020, 03:10 #

@nezabudka: nothing, but that's why she's crying. He does not stay with her to live, does not offer to meet, and generally keeps away. They have a rather strange relationship, but that's why the series is addictive

xavini

PRO

21 May 2020, 03:20 #

@xavini: Oh, I wasn't quite right. The answer is in the next episode

Maxyjazz

27 May 2020, 08:58 #

The main thing is another question, why did she say what she said, and not what she could...

binge_watching

24 May 2020, 04:35 #

That rush and touch..He finally showed his feelings in front of other people. It was very touching and tender.

Connell and Marianne's relationship is a vivid example of what a lack or lack of real communication between people leads to. It's very sad(

And I want to understand what happened at the very end, that both broke up in such emotions

karinabuzia

PRO

26 May 2020, 08:23 #

I can't watch the characters ruin love because of some misunderstandings 💔

Maxyjazz

27 May 2020, 08:55 #

The whole point of the project... people ruin each other's lives because of the understatement...

Shi3andra

31 May 2020, 00:39 #

@karinabuzia: Well, if only there were heroes!

Maxyjazz

27 May 2020, 09:27 #

Damn, well, what selective vision Mariana has, the fact that he doesn't show public attention, and the fact that he is torn to pieces right next to him does not see at close range...

Anei

04 Jun 2020, 20:41 #

@Maximgrechany: It's strange, but it seems to me that he sees and understands everything perfectly. She's just waiting for him to be ready to tell her everything and share what's eating at him.

Maxyjazz

04 Jun 2020, 21:05 #

And that's probably why she gets offended from time to time, starts new relationships that she hates. Of course, all the blame is on Connell, his fault;))))

Anei

05 Jun 2020, 19:23 #

@Maximgrechany: And I didn't say at all that someone was to blame :) You wrote above yourself, didn't you? (if I understood correctly), that the whole point is a misunderstanding on both sides, an inability and ignorance of how to properly articulate your feelings, solve problems together. After all, any relationship is the work of two people. I'm just an observer here and I don't choose sides) We, as viewers, see more, we can understand the motivation of both characters, but they do not share everything with each other, much remains "behind the scenes" for them.

Maxyjazz

05 Jun 2020, 19:58 #

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Anei

05 Jun 2020, 20:45 #

@Maximgrechany: Hmm, I can understand why her actions can be interpreted this way. But I didn't see it. All I saw was a girl he had hurt a lot in the past, and it still lingers somewhere in the present. Plus problems from the family, and a sincere inability to understand that someone really loves her and chooses her for real. Actually, that's why she pulls away and enters into other relationships with unsuitable people, it seems to her that she is not worthy of more. And all this confidence and coldness is a mask to protect yourself. Well, that's my vision.
In general, I understand Connell's behavior and actions more, but what's the point of sitting and calculating who has more joints) Both do not tell each other, and this leads to thinking for the partner, respectively, to discord.

Maxyjazz

05 Jun 2020, 23:48 #

Well, what about talking?! ;)

NataliaDavydova

24 Aug 2022, 17:46 #

@Maxyjazz: +1 also noticed this moment: he's hiding tears there, but she didn't notice ((apparently, she was so pleased that he hugged her in front of everyone that she was immersed in her feelings and didn't see anything...

мандариновая

16 Jun 2020, 01:45 #

It breaks my heart. How hard it is sometimes to say what you really think and feel, for fear of rejection or an opinion from the outside. How many words do people leave in the shower and then suffer

_Леся_

11 Jul 2020, 04:06 #

Why couldn't she ask him to stay with her??

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02 Aug 2020, 16:46 #

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02 Aug 2020, 16:47 #

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qqnastas

PRO

08 Aug 2020, 19:06 #

The pool scene is simple......🥰🦋🙈

valeriabrag

PRO

03 Nov 2020, 07:03 #

Every time they are next to each other, hugging, kissing and so on, it feels like they are in their place. Such an all-consuming tenderness, trembling, as if you are being hugged and kissed by a dear loved one.
Even sex does not look like some kind of five-minute rush of passion, as in other TV series, but directly broadcasts how people enjoy each other, they like to give pleasure.
There are no pretentious poses, no one is confused by folds or anything else, because when you love, everything is beautiful in a person.
These are probably the first actors who, during scenes of intimacy, make you believe so strongly in the feelings between the characters that you get goosebumps and tears.

Hellfrozenrain

11 Nov 2020, 20:16 #

There's still so much self-doubt in Connell. It feels like he's going through a lot, but he doesn't share it with anyone. And above all with Marianne, although he himself told her that she was his best friend. In general, it's sad...

Oks100

PRO

17 Nov 2020, 07:27 #

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Oks100

PRO

17 Nov 2020, 07:30 #

@Hellfrozenrain: Inner demons are the strongest. That's what psychologists are for.

Oks100

PRO

17 Nov 2020, 07:30 #

I'm amazed how Connell copies a part of me in every episode. Personally, I would also never personally touch/kiss my girlfriend. Here are such complexes.

NakosikaSukasena

PRO

24 Nov 2021, 03:11 #

These are not complexes. Rather, you are just a shy and not so tactile person. It is good if you meet a companion who does not care about this point and for whom it is not paramount. And there is a category of people who need tactile contact like air and for them it is extremely important.

poohthewinnie

06 Feb 2023, 20:11 #

behind six closed doors, Connell is very tactile, as we can see. so it's quite a stretch for a complex, if the emphasis is on the public manifestation of feelings

Grenada

PRO

18 Jan 2021, 02:31 #

@_lesya_: so he didn't tell her about the problem. They generally have everything drawn from the inability to speak with words through their mouths. They are silent about their own things.

Williams_1864

24 Mar 2021, 00:32 #

An unpopular opinion. I don't think Connell is worthy of Marianne, from the very beginning...

Crystal_Witch

14 Jul 2023, 23:09 #

@Williams_1864: I agree

Olya_Malik

06 May 2021, 00:14 #

I apologize wildly, but Connel looks a lot like Baku from Molodezhka... I broke my whole head as I remembered who he reminded me of

Shelby78

04 Sep 2021, 22:53 #

@Olya_Malik:ahahazhaahhp, and in truth

DashkaShumik

29 May 2021, 22:05 #

Странные и непонятные у них отношения(( ну когда все будет хорошо?(

ОксанаАльмашева

09 Apr 2022, 01:20 #

@DashkaShumik: когда начнут разговаривать? Они ж не обсуждают свои проблемы - она молча плакала о своем визите к родственникам...он не сказал о своих проблемах с работой, со статьей? Грустно

DashkaShumik

29 May 2021, 23:11 #

Странно: так страдает за ней, так любит и тут- Бах опять расстались(

NakosikaSukasena

PRO

24 Nov 2021, 03:05 #

I haven't read the book, but I know the author. I read "Conversations with friends", which did not catch on, so I postponed reading "NL", the memories are too fresh.

At the very beginning, it seemed that Rooney had some kind of obsession with secret relationships... Anyone who read "RsD" will understand what I mean.

If I didn't like the first book, and if you believe the commentators that the film adaptation of "NL" is as close as possible to what was written, then the series is going very well for me so far.

It's a bit monotonous (it reminded me of "Scenes from married life"), but on the whole it can be quite emotional and heartfelt. Responds, in general.

fay6277

04 Dec 2021, 17:02 #

The feeling that Connell is counter-dependent: as soon as he approaches a certain boundary to "serious" feelings and relationships, he is shied away in the opposite direction. It seems to me that not only the fear of publicity, but also some other deep fear that generates the fear of intimacy is hidden. It is clearly visible in the scene when Maryanne says that she would do something just to make him happy - at that moment, he apparently swayed from this expression of her codependency.
I wonder what happened to his father, why is his mother alone? If I'm not mistaken, they didn't mention him. Maybe it has something to do with it.

ОксанаАльмашева

09 Apr 2022, 01:21 #

@fay6277: and it seems to me that he is afraid of responsibility - for her, for Marianne🤦 That's what I'd be scared of.

MariaDisney

21 May 2022, 11:30 #

In the book, it seems at that moment he thought that she trusted him so much that he could even hit her and she wouldn't say anything, and he was scared by such thoughts

sssaarah

PRO

20 Nov 2022, 20:14 #

What's in the book, what's in the series, Marianne's family pisses me off, and it doesn't explain in any way why her brother behaves this way with her, neither here nor in the book. I can say the same about my mother. Although it is presented here a little better than in the book.

Jammm

26 Oct 2023, 10:16 #

They don't quite understand why they don't openly meet here. At school, they were very young and stupid, worried about the opinions of others. But here in college is a new life hundreds of kilometers from home? Everyone blames Connell's comments, but Marianne is also not very clear to me. He told her twice that he loved her, she did not respond to it once. I called once from the prom, the second time in this series. It is not shown that they agreed to hide the relationship. Why doesn't she also take some initiative and hug him in public? Or will he not set a condition - do I want to meet openly this time, or is that it? It seems that Connell admitted a school mistake, but here everything goes according to a similar scenario.

a1387785

16 Nov 2023, 17:15 #

I liked the series... however, such "brain-bearing" relationships are similar to masochism... and apart from death, it's like, and in a place no matter how...It's worth a look... the actors are beautiful and the game is on top...

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s01e06 — Episode 6

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